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All of us experience stress and reasonable amounts of stress may help us to achieve things in life. However, excessive stress can cause physical and psychological problems. Think about your life for a moment:
How do you recognise that you have a problem?
How do you feel in yourself?
What does stress make you do?
How does your partner think you behave?
What do you try to do to deal with the stress?
Do you ask for help or not?
Do you see any problems in the way you tackle it?
How can we tackle stress in a healthy way?
1. Seek professional help if necessary
(e.g. citizens advice bureau)
2. Try to cut out those non-essentials.
3. Be honest
4. Be assertive - this means being fair and respectful to others, but at the same time, putting forward your own position.
5. Seek professional help.
6. Realise your limitations and try to adopt new ways to meet challenges brought about by ill health.
7. Keep a focus on the task in hand.
8. Set time goals.
9. Don't take on too much in the time available.
10. Above all, be realistic and don't promise what you cannot achieve
Realise that you are under stress in the first place. Acknowledge the reality of the situation e.g.: finance, time pressures, personal relationships, or health matters.
It is OK to communicate your feelings with someone. There is no shame in this.
Put it in context.
Look at the stress alongside other activities and people and try to put it in perspective. Ask yourself "does it really matter?"
Step back and try to analyse in simple terms where stress points occur on a day-to-day basis. What changes or losses have occurred in my life recently? How can I begin to tackle these stresses?